Thoughtful and restless in equal measure, Fabiola explores writing as the way in — into feeling, into self, into life.

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INDEX

  • A Dor Vem de Casa

    A Dor Vem de Casa

    Imagina se pudéssemos chegar à vida já com um manual de instrução. Seria extraordinário se já pudéssemos viver sóbrios sem ter que esperar pela sabedoria que só chega na maturidade. Hoje eu senti saudade…

  • No is a Full Sentence

    No is a Full Sentence

    “No.” is a full sentence. I heard this in a podcast this week, and it echoed immediately. I’ve noticed I’ve become the kind of person who tells my close friends:you don’t have to explain…

  • The Self in Construction

    The Self in Construction

    Who I want to be is on the path. She always will be.Maybe I will meet her on the last day.Maybe I can allow myself to meet her now. Here, sitting, having my coffee,…

  • The Fragility Beneath Perfectionism

    The Fragility Beneath Perfectionism

    Perfectionism doesn’t create self-confidence.It creates dependence. You can achieve, excel, be admired,and still feel fragile, easily hurt, and in need of constant confirmation. Horney names the real problem:when we lose contact with our authentic…